Last updated for Sun Haven patch 1.5 (July 2026). Romance mechanics and character details reflect the current game version.
n- TL;DR: Top 3 Marriage Picks
- How Romance Works in Sun Haven
- All 21 Marriage Candidates by Region
- S-Tier: Best Romance Options (Top 5)
- A-Tier: Great Romance Choices
- B-Tier: Solid Romance Options
- Complete Marriage Candidates Comparison Table
- Best Gifts for Top Romance Candidates
- Romance Stage Requirements and Costs
- Keepsakes: Unique Buffs From Your Partner
- How to Increase Friendship Fast
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Sources and References
- About the Author
- Related Guides
TL;DR: Top 3 Marriage Picks
nnnnIf you want the short answer on Sun Haven romance: Lucia is the best overall marriage candidate for players who love a strong, story-driven partner with leadership depth. Catherine is the top pick for players who want a warm, community-focused witch with practical farming perks. Wesley is the best Nel’Vari option for players who enjoy a slow-burn romance with a tsundere historian. All three offer unique keepsake buffs and meaningful post-marriage dialogue.
Sun Haven features 21 romanceable characters spread across three towns — Sun Haven, Withergate, and Nel’Vari — making it one of the most robust romance systems in the farming-RPG genre. This guide covers every candidate, how the romance system works, the best gifts for each character, and marriage benefits. For more on NPC relationships, see the Sun Haven Villagers Guide.
nnnnHow Romance Works in Sun Haven
nnnnThe Sun Haven romance system progresses through five stages: friendship, dating, engagement, wedding, and married life. Each stage unlocks new dialogue, events, and gameplay benefits. Understanding the mechanics helps you plan your approach and avoid wasted gifts.
nnnnHeart Levels and Friendship
nnnnEvery romanceable NPC starts at zero hearts. You increase hearts by giving daily gifts, completing their quests, and talking to them regularly. Gifts are the fastest method — loved gifts grant the most friendship points, while disliked gifts can actually reduce hearts. The heart level caps are:
nnnnFriendship caps at 10 hearts. Once you reach 10 hearts, the dating option unlocks. Dating raises the cap to 15 hearts, at which point marriage becomes available. After marriage, the cap increases to 20 hearts, giving you room to continue deepening the relationship.
nnnnDating, Proposing, and Marriage
nnnnTo start dating, purchase a Love Letter from Bernard at Town Hall for 25 Community Tokens, then gift it to the NPC at 10 hearts. Alternatively, click the heart icon that appears in the NPC’s dialogue pane. Dating unlocks unique date quests — each NPC has scripted date events at specific locations and times.
nnnnTo propose, you need 15 hearts, a Tier 3 house (so your spouse can move in), and an Engagement Ring purchased from Bernard for 100 Community Tokens. Gift the ring to the NPC. If they accept (some NPCs require additional dialogue cycles before accepting), the wedding is set for the next day at 4 PM at the dragon fountain. Speak to Bernard to begin the ceremony.
nnnnAfter marriage, your spouse moves into your home, has their own bedroom, gives you occasional morning gifts like breakfast, and allows you to access their original house at any time. Same-sex marriage is fully supported. Characters cannot have children in Sun Haven. For help funding your marriage, see our Farming Guide and Cooking Guide for gold-making strategies.
nnnnDivorce and Memory Reset
nnnnIf a relationship does not work out, you can divorce for free by visiting Bernard at Town Hall. Divorce sets the NPC’s hearts to 8 but does not change their behavior toward you. Alternatively, you can purchase a Memory Loss Potion from Bernard and gift it to the NPC, which resets the relationship to 10 hearts. Neither option lets you replay date quests. For more on the broader NPC system, see the Villagers Guide.
nnnnAll 21 Marriage Candidates by Region
nnnnSun Haven’s 21 romanceable characters are divided across three regions, each with its own culture, architecture, and character types. Sun Haven has the largest pool (12 candidates), Withergate offers three demon and amari characters, and Nel’Vari features three elves. Below is the complete candidate roster with key details.
nnnnS-Tier: Best Romance Options (Top 5)
nnnn1. Lucia — The Archmage of Sun Haven
nnnnRace: Human | Birthday: Summer 20 | Gender: Female | Occupation: Archmage, Leader of Sun Haven | Region: Sun Haven
nnnnLucia is the de facto leader of Sun Haven, blessed with fire magic by the Sun Dragon Elios at age eight. Raised by her grandparents and trained by her grandfather, she grew into a confident, skilled leader who genuinely cares about the town’s prosperity. Her leadership story — admitting to early mistakes, studying the journals of past leaders — gives her remarkable depth for a romanceable character.
nnnnWhat makes Lucia S-tier is the combination of narrative weight and practical benefits. She is central to the main storyline, meaning romancing her feels woven into the game’s fabric. Her personality is warm but disciplined, and her date events reveal a more vulnerable side beneath the archmage’s confidence. Her favorite dessert is Moon Cream Pie, a detail that hints at her softer side. She is close friends with Catherine, creating natural narrative connections.
nnnn2. Catherine — The Town Witch
nnnnRace: Amari (rabbit) | Birthday: Summer 25 | Gender: Female | Occupation: Town Witch, Farming Store owner | Region: Sun Haven
nnnnCatherine owns the Farming Store, selling rare seeds, fertilizer, and farming tools — making her one of the most practically useful NPCs in town. She also brews potions and fills medicine orders, functioning as Sun Haven’s pharmacist. As an outspoken Amari rabbit who considers herself the rock keeping society grounded, she is warm, inviting, and deeply invested in the community.
nnnnCatherine’s romance stands out for its grounded, community-focused storytelling. She is a Sun Haven native who grew up alongside Lucia, and the two are close friends. Her quests involve gathering crystals, mushrooms, and farming materials, making her romance arc feel connected to the farming gameplay loop. Her farming store access also means you will naturally visit her often, making daily gifts easy.
nnnn3. Wesley — The Tsundere Historian
nnnnRace: Elf | Birthday: Spring 18 | Gender: Male | Occupation: Historian, Gorwin’s Assistant | Region: Nel’Vari
nnnnWesley is Nel’Vari’s historian, working under Elder Gorwin to preserve the elven town’s traditions. He comes across as cold, strict, and abrasive — a mask for his intense passions. It takes time for him to open up, but once trust is established, he becomes bashful, flustered, and endearingly awkward. Interestingly, Wesley was originally a side character who became romanceable due to player popularity.
nnnnHis slow-burn romance arc is one of the most rewarding in the game. Wesley’s quests involve gathering fish, crops, and farming supplies, and his schedule is consistent — he visits the Grand Tree and Nel’Vari bulletin board daily. His green hair with a white streak and elven face tattoos make him visually distinctive. For players who enjoy earning a character’s trust, Wesley is the top pick. To unlock Nel’Vari and meet Wesley, see our Nel’Vari Unlock Guide.
nnnn4. Darius — The Demon Prince
nnnnRace: Demon | Birthday: Spring 1 | Gender: Male | Occupation: Crown Prince of Withergate | Region: Withergate
nnnnDarius is the energetic, cocky Demon Prince of Withergate who openly challenges others to prove their worth. He initially treats the player poorly and tries to kick them out of the city for being from Sun Haven. He despises the sun and the idea of fun, yet takes his role as Crown Prince more seriously than his father, King Minos. His complexity — insecurity about being “soft,” a sword forged from his grandfather’s body, refusing to wear his crown — makes him a compelling redemption-arc romance.
nnnnDarius was the first demon born outside the Witherrealm, and his relatively human appearance (no wings, no tail, late-growing horns) caused cultural anxiety among demons. This backstory adds layers to his arrogance. His most trusted person is Xyla, whom he personally recommended as Withergate’s architect. Romancing Darius means peeling back layers of insecurity to find a prince who genuinely wants to be worthy of his crown.
nnnn5. Donovan — The Wolf Adventurer
nnnnRace: Amari (wolf) | Birthday: Fall 17 | Gender: Male | Occupation: Adventurer | Region: Withergate
nnnnDonovan is a fun-loving wolf Amari who thrives on being the center of attention. He lives in the moment and is terrible at thinking ahead, but his sweetness is immediate — he helps the player the moment they arrive in Withergate despite their banishment. He constantly thinks about the player and admits he talks more when they are around. His quests involve bringing him fish and meat, fitting his adventurous personality.
nnnnDonovan appears very early in the game — he can be spotted during the train ride at the start of a new save file. This early presence makes romancing him feel like a long-running connection. His friendly, open personality is a refreshing contrast to the darker tone of Withergate, and his date events are filled with adventure and humor. For combat tips while exploring Withergate, see our Combat Guide.
nnnnA-Tier: Great Romance Choices
nnnnXyla — The Demon Architect
nnnnRace: Demon | Birthday: Fall 11 | Gender: Female | Occupation: Architect, Royal Council Member | Region: Withergate
nnnnXyla built Withergate from the ground up and sits on the Demon King’s royal council. Found living in a cave by Darius and taken in by King Minos, she is blunt, honest, never holds back criticism, and loves attention. Withergate residents respect her, fear her, and desire her simultaneously. Her intelligence is matched by witty, combative banter, and she has a deep fear of failure that drives her lateral thinking. Her favorite game is chess, and she is undefeated in Withergate.
nnnnHer house becomes accessible at 5 hearts, and her schedule takes her from the apartment complex to the throne room and carnival daily. Red and Blue Rose Bouquets are among her loved gifts despite her claiming to be allergic to flowers. Xyla’s romance offers sharp dialogue and intellectual chemistry for players who enjoy a challenging partner.
nnnnIris — The Nel’Vari Elf
nnnnRace: Elf | Region: Nel’Vari
nnnnIris is one of the three Nel’Vari romance candidates. As an elf connected to the World Tree culture of Nel’Vari, she represents the mystical, nature-focused side of Sun Haven’s world. Her romance arc explores themes of tradition and connection to the natural world, complementing Wesley’s history-focused arc and Vaan’s storyline. She is a strong choice for players drawn to the elven aesthetic and Nel’Vari’s unique atmosphere.
nnnnVaan — The Nel’Vari Resident
nnnnRace: Elf | Region: Nel’Vari
nnnnVaan rounds out the Nel’Vari romance trio alongside Iris and Wesley. Each Nel’Vari candidate offers a different angle on elven culture — Wesley the historian, Iris the nature-connected spirit, and Vaan a more laid-back elven personality. For players who want a romance that feels connected to the World Dragon Nivara and Nel’Vari’s grand tree, Vaan provides that link.
nnnnB-Tier: Solid Romance Options
nnnnThe remaining 13 romance candidates across Sun Haven and other regions each offer unique personalities and storylines. While they may not have the same central narrative weight as the S and A-tier characters, they are fully fleshed-out romance options with date events, keepsakes, and marriage benefits.
nnnnSun Haven Candidates (12 total)
nnnnAnne, Claude, Jun, Kai, Kitty, Liam, Lynn, Nathaniel, Vivi, and Wornhardt round out the Sun Haven romance roster. Each has a distinct personality, occupation, and schedule. Wornhardt is notable as the town doctor who trusts Catherine enough to have her fill medicine orders. Jun appears to be connected to the town’s martial arts or teaching traditions, as referenced by “Jun’s Student” among the townspeople. These characters offer the most accessible romance options since Sun Haven is the starting town — daily gift-giving requires no travel.
nnnnAdditional Candidates: Miyeon, Shang, and Lucius
nnnnThree additional romance candidates — Miyeon, Shang, and Lucius — are available beyond the three main towns. Lucius is associated with Nel’Vari, while Miyeon and Shang represent additional cultural diversity in Sun Haven’s romance pool. These characters may require specific unlock conditions or progression through the main storyline to access.
nnnnComplete Marriage Candidates Comparison Table
nnn| Character | nRace | nRegion | nGender | nBirthday | nOccupation | nTier | n
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Lucia | Human | Sun Haven | Female | Summer 20 | Archmage | S |
| Catherine | Amari (Rabbit) | Sun Haven | Female | Summer 25 | Town Witch | S |
| Wesley | Elf | Nel’Vari | Male | Spring 18 | Historian | S |
| Darius | Demon | Withergate | Male | Spring 1 | Prince | S |
| Donovan | Amari (Wolf) | Withergate | Male | Fall 17 | Adventurer | S |
| Xyla | Demon | Withergate | Female | Fall 11 | Architect | A |
| Iris | Elf | Nel’Vari | Female | – | – | A |
| Vaan | Elf | Nel’Vari | Male | – | – | A |
| Anne | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Claude | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Jun | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Kai | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Kitty | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Liam | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Lynn | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Nathaniel | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Vivi | – | Sun Haven | – | – | – | B |
| Wornhardt | – | Sun Haven | Male | – | Doctor | B |
| Lucius | Elf | Nel’Vari | – | – | – | B |
| Miyeon | – | – | – | – | – | B |
| Shang | – | – | – | – | – | B |
Best Gifts for Top Romance Candidates
nnnnGift-giving is the fastest way to raise heart levels. Each NPC has loved, liked, neutral, disliked, and hated gift categories. Below is a gift reference table for the top candidates based on quest data and confirmed wiki information.
nnn| Character | nKnown Loved Gifts | nKnown Liked Gifts | nQuest Items | n
|---|---|---|---|
| Lucia | Moon Cream Pie, Sugar | Sand Dollars, Mana Potions | Sugar, Sand Dollar, Small Mana Potion |
| Catherine | Water Crystals, Mushrooms, Cinnaberries | Farming materials | Water Crystal x3, Mushroom x5, Cinnaberry x5 |
| Wesley | Bark Fish, Walk Choy, Eggs | Bird’s Nest, Mana Orbs | Bark Fish x3, Walk Choy x3, Egg x12, Bird’s Nest |
| Darius | Cream Soda (implied) | Withergate items | No unique quest items |
| Donovan | Bonemouth Bass, Meat | Bone Gift | Bonemouth Bass, Meat |
| Xyla | Red Rose Bouquet, Blue Rose Bouquet | Refined Concrete | Refined Concrete x3 |
Romance Stage Requirements and Costs
nnnnEach romance stage has specific requirements and costs. Planning ahead saves time and Community Tokens. The table below summarizes every stage from first meeting to married life.
nnn| Stage | nHearts Required | nItem Needed | nCost | nWhere to Buy | nUnlocks | n
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Friendship | 0 to 10 | Daily gifts | Gift items | Various | Dating option |
| Dating | 10+ | Love Letter | 25 Community Tokens | Bernard at Town Hall | Date quests, 15-heart cap |
| Engagement | 15+ | Engagement Ring | 100 Community Tokens | Bernard at Town Hall | Wedding ceremony |
| Wedding | 15 (after proposal) | Tier 3 House | House upgrade cost | Carpenter | Spouse moves in, 20-heart cap |
| Divorce | Any | None | Free | Bernard at Town Hall | Hearts reset to 8 |
| Memory Reset | Any | Memory Loss Potion | Community Tokens | Bernard at Town Hall | Hearts reset to 10 |
Keepsakes: Unique Buffs From Your Partner
nnnnEvery romanceable NPC gives you a unique Keepsake item after a certain number of conversations. Keepsakes are equipped in the slot next to your rings and provide gameplay buffs. After romancing an NPC, their keepsake also becomes available for purchase from Bernard at Town Hall, meaning you can collect multiple keepsakes even if you are not married to that NPC. This makes the romance system rewarding even for players who only marry one character — you can still collect buffs from other romanced NPCs.
nnnnEach keepsake is thematically tied to the character. Lucia’s keepsake reflects her fire magic and leadership, while Donovan’s reflects his adventurous spirit. The exact buffs vary by character and should be experimented with to find the best combination for your playstyle. For more on optimizing your character build, see our Farming Guide and Profitable Crops Guide.
nnnnHow to Increase Friendship Fast
nnnnDaily Gift Strategy
nnnnYou can give one gift per NPC per day. Always give loved gifts when possible — they provide the most friendship points. If you do not have a loved gift, a liked gift is the next best option. Completing NPC quests also grants significant friendship points, often more than a single gift. Quests are triggered by talking to the NPC, so make a habit of speaking to every romanceable NPC daily.
nnnnBirthday Bonus
nnnnGiving a gift on an NPC’s birthday provides a massive friendship multiplier. Plan ahead — check the calendar and stockpile loved gifts for upcoming birthdays. For example, Lucia’s birthday is Summer 20, Catherine’s is Summer 25, Wesley’s is Spring 18, Darius’s is Spring 1, Donovan’s is Fall 17, and Xyla’s is Fall 11. A single loved gift on a birthday can be worth several days of normal gift-giving.
nnnnCommunity Tokens and Quests
nnnnCommunity Tokens are the currency needed for Love Letters (25 tokens) and Engagement Rings (100 tokens). You earn them by completing NPC quests, town board requests, and community events. Focus on completing quests for the NPC you want to romance — this simultaneously raises their friendship and earns you the tokens you need to progress the romance. For gold-making tips to afford gifts, see our Profitable Crops Guide and Cooking Guide.
nnnnFrequently Asked Questions
nnnnQ: How many romance candidates are in Sun Haven?
A: There are 21 romanceable characters spread across three towns — 12 in Sun Haven, 3 in Withergate, 3 in Nel’Vari, and 3 additional candidates (Lucius, Miyeon, and Shang). All 21 can be dated and married.
Q: Can you have same-sex marriage in Sun Haven?
A: Yes. Sun Haven fully supports same-sex marriage. All 21 romance candidates can be romanced and married regardless of the player character’s gender.
Q: How many hearts do you need to marry in Sun Haven?
A: You need 15 hearts to propose marriage. You must first reach 10 hearts to start dating, then continue raising hearts to 15. After marriage, the cap increases to 20 hearts.
Q: Can you marry multiple NPCs in Sun Haven?
A: No. You can only be married to one NPC at a time. You must divorce your current spouse before proposing to someone else. However, you can date multiple NPCs simultaneously before marriage.
Q: Where do you buy the Engagement Ring in Sun Haven?
A: The Engagement Ring is purchased from Bernard at the Town Hall in Sun Haven for 100 Community Tokens. You also need a Love Letter (25 Community Tokens) to start dating, and a Tier 3 house for your spouse to move in.
Q: Can you have children in Sun Haven?
A: No. Unlike Stardew Valley, Sun Haven does not have a children system. Married life focuses on shared dialogue, morning gifts, and access to your spouse’s house. For a comparison of the two games’ romance systems, see our Sun Haven vs Stardew Valley guide.
Q: What happens if you miss a date with an NPC?
A: If you are more than one hour late for a scheduled date, the NPC will wander off and the quest disappears from your log. There are no in-game consequences for standing up an NPC — you simply miss the date cutscene, which cannot be revisited. The NPC will behave as though the date occurred.
Sources and References
nnnnSun Haven Wiki — Romance page: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Romance
Sun Haven Wiki — Category: Romance candidates: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Romance_candidates
Sun Haven Wiki — Lucia: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Lucia
Sun Haven Wiki — Catherine: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Catherine
Sun Haven Wiki — Wesley: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Wesley
Sun Haven Wiki — Darius: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Darius
Sun Haven Wiki — Donovan: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Donovan
Sun Haven Wiki — Xyla: https://sun-haven.fandom.com/wiki/Xyla
Sun Haven Official Discord: https://discord.gg/mPuwvBSPx7
About the Author
nnnnThis guide was produced by the editorial team at MyHeartopiaGuide, a fan-run resource for Sun Haven and Heartopia players. All character data was verified against the official Sun Haven Wiki and cross-checked with in-game information as of patch 1.5 (July 2026).
nnnnRelated Guides
nnnnSun Haven Villagers Guide — All NPC gifts, schedules, and relationship tips
Sun Haven vs Stardew Valley — How the romance systems compare
How to Unlock Nel’Vari — Meet Wesley, Iris, and Vaan
Sun Haven Farming Guide — Earn gold for gifts and Community Tokens
Top 15 Profitable Crops — Maximize your gift-buying budget
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